I lived in this fairy-tale for a month and we got married.

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Our relations began perfectly well 2 years ago. He was handsome, kind and romantic. We had everything, unusual dates, flowers, and presents. He made everything a woman wants. I lived in this fairy-tale for a month and we got married.

After the wedding I found out that he was married before and had a child. And my friend, not he told me about that. He said that he didn’t want to tell me about that because was afraid me to break up with him. Of course, I believed him.

Some weeks after this conversation our relations changed a lot. We went nowhere; he was always late after work and didn’t pay attention to me and my problems. There was nothing left.

At first I thought the problem was in me, but a year later I found the truth from his ex-wife.

She went to my office, introduced herself and told me everything. It happened that they broke up just 2 months before our wedding and continued seeing each other. And in a week after our wedding they had _sex_.

I was simply shocked. I couldn’t believe that and asked my husband to tell me the truth. He confirmed every word. The first thing I wanted to do is to divorce. But he swore that this was the first and the last time.

Now I just don’t know what to do. On the one hand, I don’t tust him any more and feel just emptiness. On the other hand, I still love him and want to believe.

Maybe someone can advise me something? Has anyone had the same situation? What should I do and how should I behave?